FAQ

FAQ

Everyone always has a ton of questions about the club, what happens at parties etc. This section of the website provides some answers to Frequently Asked

Questions.....

 

When are the parties held?
Parties are held the first Saturday of every Month?

 

Do I have to be a member of the internet site to attend?
Yes, it is a requirement to cover legal requirments.

 

Do I have to attend an Introduction before I can attend a party?
No – On arrival at the club you will be required to fill in an indemnity form, sign the rules and you will be taken on a brief tour of the club. Please make sure you are there by 20h00 on your first night.

 

Who can attend the parties?
All members and first timers are welcome on any party night If it is your first time at the club the previous point applies.

 

It’s my first time at the club attending a party. What time must I be there?
Simply check our calendar for when the next party is taking place. Make sure you get to the club by 20h00 to fill in the indemnity form and for a tour of the club.

 

Is food provided at the party?
Yes

 

Rooms/areas at the club include:

  • Bar Area
  • Main Play Area
  • Smaller Play Area
  • Dining room
  • Locker room
  • Coliseum (Voyeurs room)
  • Vestral Virgin Room
  • Dark rooms
  • Heated Pool
  • Cold Pool
  • Orgy Room
  • Private Rooms
  • Showers
  • Bathrooms


Is sex allowed at these parties?
Yes – In the private rooms. No sex allowed in the Main Play Areas, Bar, Dinning Room and Locker Room

 

Are drinks provided at the party?
Yes, it is an open bar, you may bring your own.

 

What time does the party start?
At 20h00

 

Do I have to book to attend a party?
Yes, either on the internet site, email or SMS (see contact us for contact details)

 

Will I get an invitation to the parties?
We do not send out "invitations" to attend parties. If you apply for membership on the internet site or the club you are eligible to attend parties. Simply check our calendar for when the next party is taking place, Email/SMS your booking to numbers supplied under contact us. Parties start at 20h00

 

What does it cost*?
R350 per person

 

* Club Rome provides a venue for alternative lifestylers to live out their adult fantasies. We do not charge members to attend parties but we do expect you to help contribute towards the cost of running these parties. Most of you know what it costs to have a party these days and it would be unfair to expect Owners of Club Rome to pay for the parties each week out of their own pockets.Club Rome’s entrance donation is an easy way for their swinging friends to help contribute towards the cost of hosting these parties, including the cost of meals, drinks and entertainment. The amount of the entrance donation may vary according to the actual costs incurred in running the parties.

 

Is a meal included in the entrance donation?
Yes, a full buffet dinner, deserts and coffee.

 

What to expect at a party?
It will be our first time at Club Rome and we don’t know what to expect. Could you please give me some advice?

The parties are fun, sociable, sexy, entertaining. Emphasis on party! The most important thing to remember is that we have NO expectations. That means that what you do is entirely up to you! If you want to just come and check out the scene that is perfectly acceptable. You do not have to undress, get naked or do anything you are uncomfortable with. No-one will force you to do anything.

 

So what can you expect?
Well, you can count on:

  • having fun
  • being able to express yourself
  • being free to be an adult
  • meeting new and exciting friends
  • great food and drinks
  • getting home very, very late
  • Anything else, well you decide on that for yourself!

 

What about safety and confidentiality?
Club Rome is a private home, providing a venue for friends to practice the lifestyle that they have chosen.
Club Rome has strict rules and is NOT open to just anyone. We believe that your safety and confidentiality are too important to leave to chance.....shouldn't you give it the same consideration?

 

What about validation of new friends?
Anyone wishing to join us must first go through an introduction and validation process. This helps to ensure that new friends are:

  • Entering the lifestyle of their own free will
  • Understand the Club Rome rules
  • Register on this site attend
  • Given some practical advice before entering into "uncharted waters"

 

What about Safety & Security?
One of our key concerns is safety and security. Equally important is confidentiality, especially when one considers the intolerance and misunderstanding the general public has regarding our lifestyle. To ensure that everyone can enjoy the lifestyle in a safe environment, secure in the knowledge that their identity or particulars will never be disclosed, we have adopted a number of unique security measures, including:

  • Turning away people who have committed past infringements towards the Lifestyle
  • Banning private camera's from the our parties
  • Requiring new friends to first attend an introductory session and undergo validation
  • Telephone numbers and email addresses are never given out
  • Secure parking facilities are available
  • Banning all drugs or illegal substances from the premises
  • Experienced Dungeon Masters are on duty at each party
  • Paramedics are on standby just in case

 

Why tour?

The Tour sessions include:

 

  • Brief explanation of the party and club rules
  • Some practical tips on the do's and don't of BDSM
  • Tour of the premises
  • Sounds daunting but all it really means is getting to the party a little earlier….

 

What are the benefits of attending an introduction?
Benefits of attending the introductory session:

  • Get to meet your hosts
  • Get your online profile verified
  • Understand the rules
  • Find out how the parties work
  • Meet other first-time attendees (you are not alone)
  • These sessions will be held at the club at 20H00 before the party starts.

 

At UBDSM;

  • All our members are checked and verified prior to being allowed to attend our parties
  • We have strict rules and a code of conduct which guarantees your safety
  • Drugs are not allowed on our premises
  • We respect each other
  • We have never had a physical fight in our club
  • We don't disclose your details to anyone
  • We believe in and practice this lifestyle ourselves
  • We don't run a subscription-based website, where pictures of you are made available to anyone who pays the subscription fee
  • All the pictures on our website were taken at real Club parties and are of actual members and guests

 

Are there Lockers and Towels?

Yes, Club Rome has a locker room with lockable lockers and towels to rent for your convenience.

 

Lockers: R40.00 per locker
Towels: R80.00 per towel
Lockers and towels can be obtained from Reception.

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